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Wednesday, 22 May 2013

Keep your skin young. Here's how



Keep your skin young. Here's how
Keep your skin young. Here's how (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

We get an expert to assess his skin for its age. Here's how you can keep yours young

The human body does not consider the skin a vital organ like the heart, lungs and the brain. So when the body faces a crisis — such as dehydration, fatigue due to stress or lack of vitamins in the blood stream — the skin is the first to show symptoms, as its crisis always gets addressed last.

French skin expert Julien Moignard from Keraskin Esthetics was in Mumbai and analysed the skin of this correspondent. The test was done with an instrument equipped with a microscope. It measured lipid levels, hydration, wrinkle onset, skin sensitivity and pigmentation. Moignard, Dr Nina Madnani, consultant dermatologist Hinduja Hospital, and Laura D'souza, skin aesthetician, share secrets that can keep your skin looking young.

Lipids
Lipids are essentials oils — made of proteins, cholesterol and fatty acids — secreted by the pores. They are present in the uppermost layer of the skin and form a protective barrier which holds in moisture and keeps out dirt and impurities. Babies have high amounts of lipids in the skin. As you age, the lipid formation in the skin slows down.

My score: Although I rarely apply moisturiser — and use a face wash or a soap to clean my face, depending on what I can get hold of at that moment — I scored 04 on a scale of 01-06, indicating a healthy level of lipids. A score of 05 or 06 would have indicated oily skin and a score or 01 or 02 would mean dry skin.

Remedy: Julian says lipid secretion is the result of eating proteins such as fish, eggs, chicken, paneer and balanced amounts of good fats, such as cheese, yoghurt and nuts. Crash-dieting severely impacts lipid development, resulting in duller looking skin. Applying a moisturiser regularly protects the lipid glands.

Hydration
The amount of fluid in your skin is important for its health. The fluids don't come only from the quantity of water you drink during the day but also the amount of antioxidants you consume. The ability of the skin to repair and produce new cells depends a lot on hydration. Well-hydrated skin is able to produce fresh cells more efficiently. Lack of sleep interferes with hydration and cell renewal. Which is why, when you sleep well, people notice the glow immediately as your skin has been forming new cells.

My score: I drank the previous night and had slept for less than five hours. Moreover, before meeting Julian, I was sweating in the heat and had gone without having water for over four hours. This showed immediately on my skin and I scored a very low 01 on a scale of 01-06.

Remedy: In hot and humid weather of Mumbai, you must drink at least three litres of water in a day. Antioxidants such as Vitamin C and E boost cell repair and formation. Mangoes, papaya, kiwis and almonds are rich sources of Vitamin E. Oranges, strawberries, grapes and pomegranates are abundant in Vitamin C.

Avoid caffeine and alcohol as they are diuretic in nature, causing your body to lose water.

Wrinkles
Wrinkles are formed when the skin cells die faster than the body can replace them. Lack of hydration over sustained periods often leads to this condition. Indentation occurs where there is constant and repetitive movement of the facial muscles, such as the glabellar-frown lines between the eyebrows, crow feet at the corner of the eyes, forehead lines and nasal wrinkles. In those who do not wear sun glasses, and have a constant frown, these indentations become pronounced wrinkles. New evidence of wrinkles has been found in young people who do heavy weights in the gym and grimace during workouts.

My score: I am 29, with a young skin. I scored 01, which showed that I do not have wrinkles yet. However there are signs to indicate their onset because of my lifestyle.

Remedy: Hydrate your skin well, wear sunglasses when outside, avoid smoking and use anti-aging products under the guidance of your dermatologist.

Sensitivity
Blame your genes if you have a sensitive skin. Such skin suffers from an uncomfortable sensation when make-up, soap, cleansers, etc. come in contact with it. The sensation does not leave any visible marks, such as redness, but is unpleasant. A low score indicates low sensitivity, while a high score indicates high sensitivity to external factors.

My score: I scored 01, which means my skin is not sensitive.

Remedy: People with sensitive skin must use sunscreen while going out as protection against rashes and sun burns. Avoid using toners which contain alcohol as they can irritate the skin. Wear oil-free and hypoallergenic make-up. Don't apply cosmetics over broken skin. Use products specifically meant for sensitive skin.

Pigmentation
Human skin colours have been classified into six types. People under Type, like Caucasians, are very fair. Type Six people have extremely pigmented skin. Indians have a wide range of skin tones and fall between Type Three and Type Six. Type of skin tone defines your response to tanning and injuries such as burns, and proneness to skin cancer.

For instance, a Type Three will hardly tan even after staying out in the sun for hours. The reason is that this type produces very few melanocytes (melanin-producing cells which define the skin colour).

On the other hand, a Type Six will tan within 20 to 30 minutes of staying out in the sun, as that skin produces more melanocytes in reaction to the Sun's UV rays.

My score: I fall between Type Four and Six.

Remedy: People who fall under Type Three or below must wear protective skin gear such as long sleeves and sunscreen if staying outdoors for long. Type Four and above can wear protection to avoid tanning. However they need not worry much about tanning as it reverses within a few weeks.

Monday, 20 May 2013

Homemade face packs for the summer



Homemade face packs for the summer
Homemade face packs for the summer (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

The skin, due to exposure to the harsh sun becomes dry and dehydrated. Here are face packs that can be made at home...

Tomato and cream: Tomato juice and malai provides a cooling effect to the skin. Apply this with cotton. Tomato seeds can be retained in the pack.

Mango pack: Apply two tablespoons mango pulp, one tea spoon of sandalwood powder, one teaspoon of honey, one tablespoon of yogurt, and some turmeric powder on your face right after some time in the sun. This saves the skin from getting damaged.

Banana pack: Some banana pulp along with one tea spoon honey is also soothing for the skin.

Potato juice: Applying the juice of freshly grated potato helps remove tan and is healthy for the skin.

Multani mitti: This is as simple as it can get. Make a paste of it by mixing it with water and rinse off after applying it for 15 minutes.

Saturday, 18 May 2013

How do you get beautiful lips



How do you get beautiful lips
How do you get beautiful lips (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

Taking care of your lips is just as important as looking after the rest of your face

Most women spend loads of money on cosmetics for their face but their lips are often neglected. Other than a cursory swipe of lipstick or a touch of lipgloss, many women do not bother too much about taking care of or worrying too much about their lips. But it is important to remember that looking after the lips, can not only add to your beauty, but also enhance any colour you may add as makeup.

The most common problem among women in India is having lips in different colours and this could be mainly due to sun exposure. Home remedies range from applying milk, honey, milk cream or lemon on them, but all this will be ineffective if you do not use sunscreen everyday. This will at least prevent the further darkening of the lips. And though there are only a few whitening creams for the lips, the best way to begin is by protecting them from the sun.

The second method suggested by experts to look after your lips and help them look good is to avoid licking them. Whenever your lips dry up, use lip balm or some pure petroleum jelly to soften them, instead of drying them out further by smacking them with your saliva. Also, look for balms that contain oils like almond or shea butter instead of the medicated ones that might dry out your lips further.

Make sure you exfoliate your lips often. This can be done with a soft baby toothbrush or a regular scrub. Don't wear too many matte lipsticks that are also very drying. Always use a primer on your lips before applying lipstick.

The secret therefore for beautiful lips is learning to keep them soft and moist all the time. Only then, will the colours pop when you wear lipstick or and go a long way in making you look sizzling hot too.

Thursday, 16 May 2013

Your guide to fixing hair disasters



Your guide to fixing hair disasters
Your guide to fixing hair disasters (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

Every woman yearns to have long, thick and shining hair with a healthy bounce! Yet, changing seasons and hectic lifestyles make it extremely hard to manage the tresses. Here's the trick to fixing tress troubles

If neglected, your hair may show signs of hair fall, split ends, dryness, dandruff, roughness and often hangs dull and lifeless. Here are simple ways you can help your tresses bounce back from some common hair disasters.

Dry hair:

-If you suffer from dry, lifeless looking hair, wash it 2-3 times a week with a mild hydrating shampoo. Herbal ingredients like Aloe Vera, vetiver oil and licorice hydrate and nourish the hair roots and also provide moisture to your hair and scalp
-While choosing a shampoo, always opt for a shampoo which is SLES free. Sodium Laureth Sulfate (SLES) which is commonly used in many shampoos is a foaming agent which may contain traces of impurities like 1,4- dioxane which may cause harmful effects when used for long time.
-Conditioning your hair is a must as tangled hair is a common problem. A good shine-enhancing conditioner smoothens out the hair, making it easily manageable. Look for extracts of Holy Basil and Amla in conditioners. These ingredients soothe, condition and replenish lost moisture, making your hair soft. Use only wide-toothed combs to detangle wet hair.
-Too much of ironing, blow drying, curling, and coloring can take away the life out of your locks. Avoid using hair styling products with alcohol which dry out hair, and avoid putting hair styling products directly on your scalp, as they clog the pores on your head. If you need to blow dry your hair, apply a leave-on conditioner prior to it.
-Oil massage and leaving it overnight once a week can be very helpful in keeping the hair in healthy state. Amla, Bhringaraja are ideal ingredients to look for.

Oily hair:

-Greasy hair can be quite a fashion disaster. Hot oil treatments once a week can be very helpful in keeping the hair revitalized. Amla, Bhringaraja are ideal for hair
-Use a protein shampoo to keep your hair to restore your hair to its healthy state. Chickpea, Wheatgerm and Amla are excellent ingredients to find in your shampoo. The formulation of these ingredients removes excess oiliness and nourishes hair roots
-Dry your hair completely before leaving the house.
-Avoid using styling products as it could make hair appear greasy due to increased product build up
-If dandruff is a concern, choose anti-dandruff shampoos with tea tree oil. Tea tree oil contains terpenoids which have been found to have antiseptic and antifungal properties.

Limp hair:
-Use a volumizing shampoo if your hair tends to go limp. A daily-use shampoo enriched with Chickpea, Amla, Black Myrobalan, Eclipta, Licorice provide natural protein nourishment to the hair, thereby nourishing the hair. It stimulates hair follicles thus promoting hair growth and also improves texture of the hair. This not only brings forth a rich, natural shine and soft texture to the hair, but also helps rejuvenate hair that is dull and damaged. These natural herbs will sooth the scalp, providing your hair with its daily dose of proteins, keeping it soft, lustrous and healthy
-Follow it up with a volume-enhancing conditioner to seal the moisture in your locks
-You can boost hair volume by tying your hair in loose braids or buns before you go to bed
-Applying a tiny amount of hair cream best suited for your hair type will not only benefit in hair growth but will also give volume to your mane. Opt for a hair cream with natural ingredients like wheat-germ and chickpea.

Hair cut and hair styling disaster
If you have cut your bangs too short, don't panic. Just brush back your hair and use a stylish clip to make it look chic. You can also turn a scarf into a headband. Even the flattest or fuzziest hair looks stylish when swept back with a scarf.

If your short hair has fallen flat, use a hair cream to massage your hair. A hair cream not only protects and nourishes the hair, but adds volume

A regular routine comprising of shampooing, conditioning and oil massage along with a well-balanced diet is the key to healthy and lustrous hair. Follow these simple tips and say goodbye to your mane woes. Taking good care of your hair makes all the difference.

Tuesday, 14 May 2013

Dos and don'ts for naturally glowing skin



Dos and don'ts for naturally glowing skin
Dos and don'ts for naturally glowing skin (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

The first signs of a beautiful skin are - soft, smooth and glowing. To get a flawless skin, here are a couple of skin care dos and don'ts to follow.

Dos

Wear makeup with the most natural ingredients possible. Mineral makeup provides flawless coverage while allowing your skin to breathe. Fewer ingredients often means the makeup's better for your skin.

Exfoliate regularly. Once a week works for most. If you have oily or combination skin, use a chemical exfoliator like glycolic or salicylic acid. Those with normal or sensitive skin will reap the greatest benefit with a microdermabrasion formula exfoliator -- the kind with little beads that scrub your face.

Use eye cream every day! The skin around your eyes is very thin and fragile. Protect it with an SPF 30 eye cream.

Eat and drink healthful foods. Great skin starts on the inside. Drink lots of water to keep hydrated, and ingest lots of antioxidants like those found in green tea and foods high in vitamins A, E, C and beta carotene. Antioxidants fight free radicals, which can cause cell damage. (Bonus: Antioxidants also help protect against cancers and heart disease!)

Follow a regimen regularly. Caring for your skin should be a twice-daily occurrence. Don't be slapdash about your regimen or follow it only sporadically and expect to see any lasting results.

Dont's

Smoking prematurely ages your skin at a rate second only to sun damage. Nicotine constricts the blood vessels, blocking the flow of oxygen to your skin.

Forget to wear sunscreen! Make your moisturizer do double duty and wear one with an SPF of at least 30, even in the winter, and even if you are only outdoors a few minutes a day.

Forget your neck, chest and hands. These areas age the fastest and are all but ignored in our skincare routines. Sunscreen, exfoliation and moisturization are just as important in these areas as they are on your face. Look for anti-aging ingredients like vitamin A, kinetin, copper and vitamin C.

Overdry your skin. Many women make the mistake of staging a full-scale drying assault on their entire faces when confronted with a pimple. This only makes the problem worse. When skin is stripped of all its natural oils, it produces even more sebum to make up for it. This substance is what clogs pores, causing pimples. A gentle cleanser and regular exfoliation is kind to your skin, yet effective enough for most women -- but do see your dermatologist if you feel you have an acne problem.

Sunday, 12 May 2013

Why chocolate facial is good



Why chocolate facial is good
Why chocolate facial is good (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

If you thought eating a bar of chocolate can satisfy your mood swings, then you're wrong.

Chocolate facial, a new fad in the beauty circle will not only enhance your complexion but also ensure that your skin is healthy and glowing in the long run.

Chocolate cream, paste, scrub etc - used for chocolate facial has a smooth and creamy texture with the fragrance of chocolate that ensures that your skin is de-tanned and glows. Chocolate helps in getting rid of the tan.

Why is it good for your skin?
- Chocolate is high in anti-oxidants and contains anti-ageing properties too.
- Chocolate also imparts a healthy glow to your face.
- It increases the production of collagen and lightens blemishes and acne marks.
- It hydrates your skin and softens delaying the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines.
- It suits all skin types and is known to be one of the best ways to relax and rejuvenate yourself after a tiring week at work.

How to do a chocolate facial at home
Start with cleansing your face. Use a cleanser of your choice - one with raw milk and turmeric or rose water and besan. Once you've cleansed your face, you can now opt for a home-made scrub. Grind brown sugar and coffee beans and apply this paste on your face for approximately 10 minutes. Once you've done scrubbing, use the chocolate paste as a massage cream. Clean your face and apply the chocolate pack for 20 minutes until you wash it off with cold water. Pat your face dry.

Friday, 10 May 2013

BETI KA ANOKHA BAYAAN..

BETI KA ANOKHA BAYAAN..

Dear Papa....
Beti bankar aayi hu ma-baap ke jivan me,
basera hoga kal mera kisi aur ke aangan me,
kyu ye reet "RAB" ne banai hogi,
kehte hai aaj nahi to kal tu parai hogi,
dekhe janam paal-poskar jisne hame bada kiya,
aur waqt aaya to unhi hatho ne hame vida kiya,
tut ke bikhar jati hai humari zindagi wahi,
par phir bhi us bandhan me pyar mile zaruri to
nahi,
kyu rishta humara itna ajib hota hai,
kya bas yahi betiyo ka nasib hota hai ??
.
.
.
Papa Says...
Bahut chanchal bahut Khushnuma si hoti hai
BETIYA
Nazuk sa dil rakhti hai Masoom si hoti hai BETIYA
Baat baat par roti hai Nadan si hoti hai BETIYA
Rehmat se bharpoor Khuda ki nemat hai BETIYA
Ghar mehak uthta hai Jab muskrati hai BETIYA
Ajeeb si taklif hoti hai Jab dusre ghar jati hai
BETIYA Ghar lagta hai suna suna Kitna rula ke jati
hai BETIYA
Khushi ki jhalak
Babul ki ladli hoti hai BETIYA Ye hum nahi kehte
Yeh toh "RAB" kehta hai...Ke Jab main bahut
khush hota hu toh janam leti hai
"PYARI SI BETIYA"

Are you replacing toothbrush every 3 months?


Are you replacing toothbrush every 3 months?
Are you replacing toothbrush every 3 months? (Thinkstock photos/Getty Images)

We have all along known the importance ofdental hygiene, but could never whip up enthusiasm to pursue it religiously. 

Blame it on the smattering of information available, we are left wondering from where to begin, and if one can ever do it the right way.

Aesthetic dentistry expert Dr Sushant Umre exchanges some invaluable notes on oral care.

Most appropriate way to brush your teeth
Proper brushing is essential for cleaning teeth and gums effectively. Use a toothbrush with soft, nylon, round-ended bristles that will not irritate teeth or damage gums.

Place bristles along the gumline at a 45-degree angle. Bristles should contact both the tooth surface and the gumline. Gently brush first, the outer tooth surface and then the inner surface of the tooth using a vibrating back and forth rolling motion.

Tilt brush vertically behind the front row of teeth. Make several up and down strokes using the front half of the brush. Place the brush against the biting surface of the teeth and use a gentle back and forth scrubbing motion. Brush the tongue from back to front to remove odour-producing bacteria.

You may want to supervise your children until they get the hang of these simple steps. Use a pea-sized dab toothpaste, preferably fluoride free if the child is below six years of age and take care that your child does not swallow the toothpaste.

The right tooth paste and toothbrush
Use a toothbrush with soft, nylon, round-ended bristles that will not irritate teeth or damage gums. One of the main things to look for in a toothbrush are its bristles. Most dentists recommend soft bristles, especially for those individuals who have sensitive teeth and gums. Both adults and children should use a toothbrush that has soft bristles. Toothbrushes with harder bristles are not more effective at removing plaque or stains.

Be sure to select a toothbrush head size that can easily fit into the mouth and is capable of brushing a row of teeth at a time. With this in mind, be sure to select a toothbrush with a very small head for a very young child.

Toothbrushes should be replaced about every three months or earlier if the bristles begin to look worn or frayed (bristles that fan out or spread is a sign that it is time to get a new toothbrush).

After consulting with your dentist or hygienist about your oral health's greatest needs, look for products within that category (for example, within the tartar control brands or within the desensitizing toothpaste brands). Always pick a toothpaste that contains fluoride. Fluoride toothpastes have been shown to prevent cavities, but in children under six years of age it can be avoided as they have a tendency to swallow it.

Early beginnings
Proper dental care can begin before an infant gets his/her first tooth. Soon after the baby gets the first tooth, make an appointment to see the dentist.

Rinsing mouth after eating
If you don't rinse your mouth after meals, particles of food remain in the mouth, collecting bacteria, which can cause bad breath. Food that collects between the teeth, on the tongue and around the gums can rot, leaving an unpleasant odour. Dentures that are not cleaned properly after meals can also harbor odour-causing bacteria and food particles.

Limit coffee, tea and alcohol. Caffeine products as coffee, tea and colas act as diuretics which in turn contribute to a dry mouth. Water is the best solution so drink plenty of liquids at least 8-12 glasses of fluid a day, unless advised otherwise by your doctor.

Tackling bad breath
Certain foods, such as garlic and onions, contribute to objectionable breath odour. Once the food is absorbed into the bloodstream, it is transferred to the lungs, where it is expelled. Brushing, flossing and mouthwash will only mask the odour temporarily. Odours continue until the body eliminates the food. Beware dieters, as you may develop unpleasant breath from infrequent eating.

Bad breath can also be caused by dry mouth (xerostomia), which occurs when the flow of salivadecreases. Saliva is necessary to cleanse the mouth and remove particles that may cause odour. A dry mouth may be caused by various medications, salivary gland problems or continuously breathing through the mouth. If you suffer from a dry mouth condition, your dentist may prescribe artificial saliva, or suggest using sugarless candy and increasing your fluid intake.

Tobacco products too can cause bad breath. If you use tobacco, ask your dentist for tips on kicking the habit.

If you think you have constant bad breath, keep a log of the foods you eat and medications you take. Some medications may play a role in creating mouth odours. Let your dentist know if you've had any surgery or illness since your last appointment.

Brush twice a day with fluoride toothpaste to remove food debris and plaque. Brush your tongue, too. Once a day, use floss or an interdental cleaner to clean between teeth.

Tooth jewellery, a good idea!
Tooth jewellery is an elegant compliment to standard jewellery. When placed on the tooth, the jewellery creates a distinctive expression of one's individuality. A range of glass crystals are available in nine different colours - diamond, rainbow, ruby, sapphire, emerald, emerald green, aquamarine, pink, sapphire light.

If somebody thinks he or she was better off without tooth jewellery, it can be easily removed without any side-effects on the dental tooth structure as the procedure is non-invasive. What's more, tooth jewellery can be fixed again at a later stage so there is no real disadvantage to having it done.

Dental reconstruction a fad with brides, models
One of the first things people notice about you is your smile. A healthy attractive smile can boost your confidence and enhance your personal and professional life and this is exactly what a blushing bride or aspiring model is looking for.

Until recently, most people were satisfied if their teeth were straight and free of stains, chips or other obvious imperfections. But in the last few years, the combination of Hollywood glamour and advances in cosmetic dentistry most people want their teeth to be perfectly uniform and dazzlingly white.

Cosmetic dentists have also pioneered a technique called computer imaging that allows them to perform virtual restorations on a computer screen. A patient who is thinking about having work done can see what the results will look like before he or she makes the decision to go forward. New composite resins, invisible fillings, porcelain veneers and high-strength resin cements are stronger, long-lasting and do not change colour over time which combined with new single sitting teeth whitening technology can give both women and men just the sparkling smile that they want.

Care for gums
Periodontal (gum) disease is an infection of the tissues surrounding and supporting the teeth. It is a major cause of tooth loss in adults. Periodontal (gum) disease is caused by plaque, a sticky film of bacteria that constantly forms on the teeth. These bacteria create toxins that can damage the gums.

The good news is that you can help prevent periodontal disease by taking good care of your gums every day and having regular dental checkups. Here's how to keep your gums healthy:
- Brush your teeth well twice a day
- Clean between your teeth every day
- Eat a balanced diet
- Choose a variety of foods from the basic food groups, such as breads, cereals and other grain products; fruits; vegetables; meat, poultry and fish; and dairy products, such as milk, cheese and yogurt. Limit between-meal snacks
- See your dentist every few months