Open ur book of life only for some people.
Bcoz in this world, very few care about d chapters in it!
Others are just curious to know d story!
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Saturday, 14 July 2012
How Do I Live
A true dedication direct dil se to the one who's lost
In wait of a communication
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A Message from All Boys to all Girls..
A Message from All Boys to all Girls..
We always hear "The Rules" From the Female side.
Now here are the Rules from the Male side.
These are our rules!
»» Please note.. these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!
1.. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem ONLY if you want us to solve it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you think you're fat,
you probably are. Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done. Not both.
If you already know best how to do it , just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no IDEA WHAT MAUVE IS.
1. IF IT ITCHES, IT will be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are bloody lying, but it is just not worth the hassle for us.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine.... Really .
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as Cricket or Katrina's assets.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. ROUND IS a shape =D
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We always hear "The Rules" From the Female side.
Now here are the Rules from the Male side.
These are our rules!
»» Please note.. these are all numbered "1" ON PURPOSE!
1.. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem ONLY if you want us to solve it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you think you're fat,
you probably are. Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done. Not both.
If you already know best how to do it , just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no IDEA WHAT MAUVE IS.
1. IF IT ITCHES, IT will be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are bloody lying, but it is just not worth the hassle for us.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine.... Really .
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as Cricket or Katrina's assets.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. ROUND IS a shape =D
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Friday, 13 July 2012
2012-07-13-310.jpg JMD
Giving a booster shot to work harder!!!!
JMD
How we give it a push @ work
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Sick, Molesting a Kid - Guwahati Incident - Videos & Photos
These people are sick and why the hell did the law have to act after the incident went viral on you tube, such people should be prosecuted as per saudian laws
The Photo's of the "Freaking Machos" as added by a friend AJ
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The Full Video's
Its you and I who need to act on these and get the Law to wake up
Actual URL:
http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/07/13/this-is-what-rapists-do-when-there-is-no-fear-of-punishment/
Spread this as much as you can so that such people never go unpunishned, bastards, bloody bastards
The Photo's of the "Freaking Machos" as added by a friend AJ
Click here and read
The Full Video's
Its you and I who need to act on these and get the Law to wake up
Actual URL:
http://indianhomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/07/13/this-is-what-rapists-do-when-there-is-no-fear-of-punishment/
Spread this as much as you can so that such people never go unpunishned, bastards, bloody bastards
Male Machoism??? Crazy Crap
I really dunno what to say about the today morning incident, so the improper subject line, this post is in continuation of Male Feminism and In Her Own Words , I start early for work from home as I love the morning drive and am an early riser, so at around 0645 hours today morning Raj & Raj left for the daily morning run to work, the pleasurable drive, I drive from Noida near Sector 62 to Faridabad and cross multiple places and metro stations, this is an incident between sector 37 and Amity crossing, today morning amazingly enough it has been raining in Noida since 0330 hours and its been an on and off rain, but a continuous drizzle, daily morning as I cross sector sector 37 from the past 3 years I have always seen a girl walking fast towards Amity crossing, I dunno who she is, where she hails or any damn thing, but yes whenever we have looked at each other we have exchanged a smile & thumbs up, I have also given her a lift in my car when I had it but never spoken to her ever, so today she was much ahead of me and walking as always pretty fast rather a jogging speed, she was in a white knee length skirt and a blue top, (u'll understand why I noticed), I had stopped for my smoke at 37 crossing and there were others also who stop for the smoke, just then I realized that an alto next to me with "Gujjar" written in red, a guy jumps out asks the cig waala for two "chhoti gold flake" pushing me and also says "jaldi kar luandiya paani se door ho jaayegi, mauka nikal jaayega", suddenly I realized that they are talking about that kid only as she is walking fast pas a puddle, and the intention to race the car in the puddle and dirty the kiddo, I just didnt like the idea, but before I could react the car sped up, all tinted glass, immediately I and Raj also flew, I was in a wet suit rather a rain suit and just though I am not gonna let the kid be splashed, the kid amazingly has never I think seen me with Raj (my bike), as the car sped towards the puddle, I took a sharp turn putting myself in between the car and the kiddo, the huge water splash from the puddle flew towards her but then the bike in between acted like an absorber and cut down more than 95% of the force of the water, I was soaked and so was Raj, but again I was in a rain suit and Raj loves water, the car didnt stop, their plan was fowled the water did hit the kiddo but dirtied only her feet and no harm to her dressing, then I opened my helmet and then looked at her for the smile on her face meant a thank you and also her face showed signs of surprise that I was on a bike, then for the first time I heard her say, "sick people", however the kid was saved and just then I realized ohh shit I was wearing new shoes which are now yukkk, anyways my motive was to save the kiddo which was fulfilled and I feel a good deed done,
Once again the kiddo looked at me as she jumped away from the puddle but again I dunno why Raj growled and I smiled showing a thumbs up and we moved on leaving her again to walk towards her destination, however I feel what the car guy tried was sick and shouldn't be done as all it meant was harm for the kid, I dunno what fun you get by ruining someone's day
God give people some sense.....
For life goes on and on
Once again the kiddo looked at me as she jumped away from the puddle but again I dunno why Raj growled and I smiled showing a thumbs up and we moved on leaving her again to walk towards her destination, however I feel what the car guy tried was sick and shouldn't be done as all it meant was harm for the kid, I dunno what fun you get by ruining someone's day
God give people some sense.....
For life goes on and on
2012-07-13-308.jpg What was the thought
I am just trying to wonder what this gentleman had in mind while wearing this T-Shirt, and when I generally asked him, the reply was "koi ladki impress ho jaayegi", I mean what the crap?????
Indeed a great Gujjar (No offenses)
Photo Clicked @ Babdarpur Border, Delhi
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Thursday, 12 July 2012
'I expect' is the great illusion
'I expect' is the great illusion, which converts itself
into demanding rights without due respect for others.
Anger in all its forms is a direct result of an expectation
not being fulfilled and brings cries (although sometimes silent ones) of 'They
should have done this', 'Why did this happen?' or 'Don't you know better?'
Disappointment, accusations and demands are violent energies, which we throw
around very naturally and easily in our daily life when our expectations are
not fulfilled. They are like a burning fire that eats away at our original
spiritual qualities, turning them to a dust that pollutes the self and others.
Instead, let us continue to practice returning our thoughts
to the self and remembering our original source of peace. In that experience of
deep, natural peace, we will find balance and clarity and the ability to
tolerate and adjust to the unexpected.
One of the keys of meditation practice is to quickly gather
our thought energy and take it inside to connect to our original qualities, no
matter what may be happening outside, or even inside!
Let me disconnect from the external and plug in to the
internal energies that support me and then I will be able to say goodbye to
anger very easily.
The one who knows the art of connecting to others is successful
The one who knows the art of connecting to others is
successful
We are normally good to people who are good to us. But when
someone is not behaving well, we tend to change our attitude, our response and
our behaviour towards that person. We wait for the other person to change, in
order to change ourselves. So neither do we find change in others nor in
ourselves. When we know the art of perceiving others’ specialities and
connecting to them, we are always successful. We are then not dependent on the
other person’s behaviour for our own growth. We are able to see each one’s
positive aspect and take it in ourselves too. So we are richer with each
interaction.
To pack up from the past is to finish
To pack up from the past is to finish the negative impact of the past
We usually find ourselves to be slaves of the past. The situation has occurred and has gone by but we are not able to forgive and forget the past. We continue to think about it again and again. This brings about the same feelings and experience of the past and we are simply caught up in it. We need to free our mind of the past. We need to see what we have learnt from the past situation, take that and be free from it. We need to forgive and forget. We can forget only when we forgive and we can forgive only when we learn. When we take the learning from every situation. We are able to be free from being a slave of the past.
To be cool is to work to build relationships
To be cool is to work to build relationships
It is easy to speak negatively when we do not like something about someone. We first react to them in our mind and so tend to get angry. Our words and behaviour would then naturally be negative and insulting too. This further widens the gap and breaks the relationship. When someone does something undesired, we first need to try and understand his behaviour. Every person has a reason to behave the way he does. If we can’t understand at that time, we at least need to give it time. The more we react to the other person and his behaviour, the greater the distance that is created. So we need to begin the first step of positivity by recognizing some positivity in him.
When we recognize that we are pure
When we recognize that we are pure beings with a lot of positivity inside, we are able to tap that inner divinity that lies hidden. Negative experiences and influences do colour our inner divinity. But in fact, we would love to be connected to our inner divine virtues and experience positivity under all circumstances.
Whatever I want is what I am
Whatever I want is what I am. In all my interactions and connections I would love to experience feelings of peace, love and happiness more than anything else. And so that is what I am. When I am connected to what I really want, I am able to experience the divinity within. Whenever a negative experience takes me away from the real me, I just need to remind myself of who I really am and what I really want.
Miscommunication
Something we well are aware of for it happens frequently, biggest cause as I have derived for this, assumptions and not understanding what is implied or intended, tonnes of instances have I witnessed and in due time realised that it is more of assumptions causing the things to go haywire, for elaborate, simply lets say you and I had an argument on something, then you called me and I didnt answer, I also didnt reply to the sms you sent me, great na, reasons assumed and later applied:
- I am upset with you, pakka
- My ego is hurt
- My attitude wont let me reply
- Ohh man I am a "Bada Aadmi"
- I dont care about you
- I dont wish to talk to you
- Hell I dont care
- I dont respect you
- I dont respect you time
- My bubble is getting bigger
- You are not on my priority list
- I intend to bother you intentionally
- I am irritating you
- I hate you
- I dont want you
- Fuck off
- WTF
- Freaking shit phone on silent mode
- I am driving
- I have forgotten the phone
- I am busy, baat me bakwaas karenge
Such a freakingly simple thing to be understood but over and over again I see people fighting due to this, GF fighting BF and vice versa, just people fighting over such a silly thing, hey mate I face this all the time and I know how it feels, bad real bad is what it is, but again.......... assumptions never end
Buddy take care, everything has a different aspect to it, just try changing the aspect and focus of the light beam with which you are looking and things will change, buddy its never about fighting but more about supressing the reasons to fight, but again who cares and follows for I have experienced personally just trying to find points to fight, from the most stupid one, beat this a newpaper kept in its place but not being folded properly can lead to a quarrel, the toilet plastic seat being "off" instead of "on", the air conditioner running at 25 instead of 24 and I can keep writing till the keyboard fails,
Mate please whoever is getting the message, please avoid quarrels at all cost and in all fields of life, in your workplace, in your personal life, in an explicit relation or an implicit one, or even in a no commitment relation, just take care,
Make life lively not life hell, like I am subjected to,
For life goes on and on......
Naamkaran Sanskar of Raj
Naamkaran Sanskar of Raj
Yet another memoir in those baffled lanes, Raj initially a name given to me in my school day by senior girls, and then the name transferred from me, rather copied from me to my conveyance my bike, no matter what names I give them but finally I've since 1994 always called them Raj, for the Raj & Raj Rule the road, even today my girlfriend "Dazzler" is my Raj, and once again Raj with Raj,
Amazingly enough while acquainting and wandering through dada's blogs, I realized that this is yet another point that matches, Dada's bike's name is Raj and so is mine, a funny coincidence but yet again true, one of the thousand such instances, and yet life moves on and on.
Form the Chamber of Secrets called Love
Form the Chamber of Secrets called Love
Yet another teaching from my dada.......
Secrets that I treasured about you – treasured and felt and
remembered with every beat of this silly heart and every breath that I take.
This is one tag that made me bleed ! One tag that made me
reveal secrets I thought I will never share with anyone… these are as
precious as they can be…
- The
stealing look from the corner of your eyes
- The
white of your eye
- Your
brown tinged mane, that flowed till your shoulder & covered your eyes,
termed them “Jhabra Kutta”
- Those
loose hair strands left around the room after you left
- Your
cribbing for me to give you those head massage, your hair was my
responsibility
- Your
giving me massage
- Your
beauty spot just over your lip
- Your
childish laughter
- Your
extra slim childish fingers
- Our
first walk together in Leisure
Valley
- Our
code signs, helping us chat without spoken words
- Your
scented _____, accompanying me
- Weekend
escapades on Raj (our Bike!)
- My
atrocious bargains
- The
way you used to brag about me to your friends and cousins
- Your
daily reports about the day
- Cuddling
and sitting during dark rainy nights
- Your
anger for my clothes lying in wrong places
- Your
hungry waits, for me
- The
way you used to come running and jump to announce your success
- Your
drinking beer with sugar
- My
shirt’s sleeve elbows, crushed by your frantic tugs while crossing the
roads
- Fights
for remote, during my shows
- Your
watching the same movie umpteen times, coz u never manage to watch them
full
- The
swollen lips in the morning after………………
- All
those knickknacks you bought for our home
- Your
last kiss in the lift, in office
- Your
always tripping on stairs, never with heels but always without
- Your
getting _______ in Shatabdi enroute to delhi
- You
tearing my favourite T-Shirt off and then stitching it
- You
yelling
- You
calling names to my company
- You
changing priorities
- You
ignoring
- Your
cold shoulder
- Your
ego and attitude
- You
You You You
- You
You You
- You
You
- You
The way English is implied
As stated previously have been a language trainer and coach, some tings that I have commonly come across in our office that people do while using english as a mode of communication, these are generic common faults or whatever,
I am sure dada agrees to it as well, but that's our workplace so don't angry me, and yes I am enclosed
I am sure dada agrees to it as well, but that's our workplace so don't angry me, and yes I am enclosed
Then there is a still higher type of courage
Then there is a still higher type of courage - the courage to brave pain, to live with it, to never let others know of it and to still find joy in life; to wake up in the morning with an enthusiasm for the day ahead.
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Today I choose life
Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.
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Wednesday, 11 July 2012
Funny Tongue Twisters - Yet Again Dada the booster
I dont recall mentioning this in any of my crappy blogs but have been a language trainer and am a literature graduate and havent since a long time been writing anything or mentoring for language, but again since the past 2-3 months the big bro has been forcing me to write and share something for our official magazine and finally I gave a few pics that I clicked and some tongue twisters if for anyone wishes to clarify their speech, for I know our company has this bigggg problemo, anyways then just a small gesture from my side, to boost my morale turned by my big bro dada into a magazine, Tongue Twisters hey dada I dunno how to even appreciate thy efforts for this meagre
Love u big bro
Love u big bro
A Comfy Pose -- Enlisted in L&T Magazine
Six Air Purifing house plants
Six Air Purifing house plants:
1. Bamboo Palm: According to NASA, it removes formaldahyde and is also said to act as a natural humidifier.
2. Snake Plant: Found by NASA to absorb nitrogen oxides and formaldahyde.
3. Areca Palm: One of the best air purifying plants for general air cleanliness.
4. Spider Plant: Great indoor plant for removing carbon monoxide and other toxins or impurities. Spider plants are one of three plants NASA deems best at removing formaldahyde from the air.
5. Peace Lily: Peace lilies could be called the “clean-all.” They’re often placed in bathrooms or laundry rooms because they’re known for removing mold spores. Also know to remove formaldahyde and trichloroethylene.
6. Gerbera Daisy: Not only do these gorgeous flowers remove benzene from the air, they’re known to improve sleep by absorbing carbon dioxide and giving off more oxygen over night
Again this is something I've come across and guarantee nothing out of it, but yes I do follow it.....
I was always an early riser
I was always an early riser. Happy the man who is! Every morning day comes to him with a virgin's love, full of bloom and freshness. The youth of nature is contagious, like the gladness of a happy child
I agree to the above lines from the depth of me heart and thats the reason why they are a part of my blog, for what I feel I blog, a statement, a line, a sentence, a story, any damn thing, but always direct dil se
Money comes like a turtle
Money comes like a turtle and goes like a rabbit, very true is what I feel and atleast heartily applies to me, cause my freaking salary is gone before I realize!!!!!
There is a tide in the affairs of men
There is a tide in the affairs of men, Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune. Omitted, all the voyage of their life is bound in shallows and in miseries. On such a full sea are we now afloat. And we must take the current when it serves, or lose our ventures
Tuesday, 10 July 2012
No Yearn to Learn - No-Kia Chhota Bacha
Learning as I have been constantly posting in my blogs is itself an art, its takes not only a good teacher but an excellent student as well to learn, as they say it takes two hands to clap and not one, I write this blog unfortunately in vain for I see no yearn to learn in one of my students this year the one I have been constantly referring in multiple blogs as Swink, Chotta bacha and a new name from today on No - Kia for everything or rather every other thing said is always a No, just coming to work daily on time is appreciable but standalone is not, yet the chhota bachha comes to office daily in a very timed manner and stays long hours but again no learning all throughout, hey dude if you gotta learn you gotta put efforts, there are numerous resources it yu who's gotta way to find a way to utilise them to your benefit, if you ask the IT assistant about Quant then you are wrong, if you are looking for a project guy to tell you programming logics, you are wrong, when you have full access to all resources which are devoid from all other trainees, it is indeed not appreciable to see those resources not being utilised, even as full two weeks complete of training in a 4 week schedule, you are exactly where you started,
Chhota bacha has to understand the value of important time, always a No-Kia attitude will not lead anywhere, in a corporate world that too in a corporate giant, you are not getting anyone as a dedicated full time mentor unless you pay for the manhour, in the real world if you are getting a mentor you are the one supposed to find the ways to utilize it to max, do not find this post offensive but as a feedback a true feedback which cannot be shared on an official note as it will lead to results not desired,
Yet again I beseech thee to learn, No-Kia has not yet delivered a single good i.e. a single procedure, a two line program doesnt remain impressive for long, please understand and make up reports for once again lemme reiterate that actions speak louder than words, and unfortunately I see only words and no actions to support the words!!!
Take care Chhota Bachha No-Kia
Chhota bacha has to understand the value of important time, always a No-Kia attitude will not lead anywhere, in a corporate world that too in a corporate giant, you are not getting anyone as a dedicated full time mentor unless you pay for the manhour, in the real world if you are getting a mentor you are the one supposed to find the ways to utilize it to max, do not find this post offensive but as a feedback a true feedback which cannot be shared on an official note as it will lead to results not desired,
Yet again I beseech thee to learn, No-Kia has not yet delivered a single good i.e. a single procedure, a two line program doesnt remain impressive for long, please understand and make up reports for once again lemme reiterate that actions speak louder than words, and unfortunately I see only words and no actions to support the words!!!
Take care Chhota Bachha No-Kia
All high achievers
All high achievers plan their work and work their plan,
for they are keenly aware that "luck" is most often
being prepared to take advantage of a situation.
Happiness lies for those who cry
Happiness lies for those who cry,
those who hurt, those who have searched and
those who have tried,
for only they can appreciate the importance of people
who have touched their lives
There are two ways of spreading light
There are two ways of spreading light :
to be the candle or
the mirror that reflects it
Freaking Fraudsters on Job Sites
A recent incident that reminds or rather inspires me to jot this down for more than one instance have I witnessed this for the company that I work has a very prestigious brand name attached to it, the bigger the brand name the higher the value and more the chances of people falling for it,
I also interact with multiple vendors and recently I received a box of sweets from a vendor stating that it is from him personally as its for his new job, he knows I wont accept any professional gifts so a personal one, oki anyways he is happy so I called him and asked him whats the profile and wheres the job, to my amazement he tells me that he has got an offer letter from my company after a small telephonic round for a managerial profile, I mean what the hell, i know people have to go through 16 or more rounds of blood sucking rounds before they can hope for anything and this lucky dude got through on phone, man what the hell, lucky aint he, or perhaps just maybe, he is conned, so very politely I asked him to forward me the details and the letter via mail which he gladly did and as a nice person I inturn forwarded to my company HR person who replied to the mail marking a copy to the poor guy that the letter is a fraud, the letter had also asked him to deposit a heft 15k in some account as a refundable security deposit which started my doubt, the poor guys heart was broken, his dream to enter the giant shattered but at the positive side his hard earned money saved from some con man.
A few days later a girl with some sardarji came to office carrying a bunch of papers and some other stuff, and I was at the entrance gate returning from a smoke so I intervened as the guards were having a tough time handling him, the poor guy was happy that his sister has got an offer from our company and she had to deposit 25k in an account but however the office was enroute they decided to deposit cash in the accounts department of the office, then finally yet again con, but saved
I wonder how many would have actually fallen for this and wasted their hard earned money, although now the company has issued a circular to warn of this, but again this had happened from poor people posting on job sites and falling prey to hideous criminal minds,
I just hope none fall for it,
Yet again for life goes on and on
I also interact with multiple vendors and recently I received a box of sweets from a vendor stating that it is from him personally as its for his new job, he knows I wont accept any professional gifts so a personal one, oki anyways he is happy so I called him and asked him whats the profile and wheres the job, to my amazement he tells me that he has got an offer letter from my company after a small telephonic round for a managerial profile, I mean what the hell, i know people have to go through 16 or more rounds of blood sucking rounds before they can hope for anything and this lucky dude got through on phone, man what the hell, lucky aint he, or perhaps just maybe, he is conned, so very politely I asked him to forward me the details and the letter via mail which he gladly did and as a nice person I inturn forwarded to my company HR person who replied to the mail marking a copy to the poor guy that the letter is a fraud, the letter had also asked him to deposit a heft 15k in some account as a refundable security deposit which started my doubt, the poor guys heart was broken, his dream to enter the giant shattered but at the positive side his hard earned money saved from some con man.
A few days later a girl with some sardarji came to office carrying a bunch of papers and some other stuff, and I was at the entrance gate returning from a smoke so I intervened as the guards were having a tough time handling him, the poor guy was happy that his sister has got an offer from our company and she had to deposit 25k in an account but however the office was enroute they decided to deposit cash in the accounts department of the office, then finally yet again con, but saved
I wonder how many would have actually fallen for this and wasted their hard earned money, although now the company has issued a circular to warn of this, but again this had happened from poor people posting on job sites and falling prey to hideous criminal minds,
I just hope none fall for it,
Yet again for life goes on and on
Its not hard to sacrifice
Its not hard to sacrifice something for someone.
But Its very hard
to find someone who Deserve your sacrifice..!
The prettiest smiles
The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets.
The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears and
the kindest hearts have felt the most pain.
A living example - My dada
A Funny Relation - Me & Dada I Dunno
Well truly sometimes relations are beyond expressions and undoubtedly so is the case between me and dada, primarily the thing to be cleared here, dada is a bong and since i treat him like a big bro "dada", however the truth "dada" is not at all my dada since over an year now, he's my "jiju" ;-)
Approximately the time rolls back to half a decade when I and dada met, neither remembering how, but yes we did, probably over a smoke, and the very first interaction with him and make anyone feel that he is a highly intellectual person who is too freakingly busy spreading cheer everywhere around, almost like he has so much cheer in his life that the pot is spilling and the spills is what he is spreading to all around bringing cheer to everyone, man the dude is so full of life and I was damn impressed wit the guy for he was just bringing happiness, soon interactions increased, time spent together increased and then in the midst of all realized that he is a bong, no offenses, but a bong who hates bongs!!!! for he has no traits of a bong except the extra large sweet tooth like me, people do at times say that even I have the looks of a bong!!!! i dont feel that but again people ... u cant stop them.....
So back to the point, relations started growing stronger with dada, started realizing that ideologies match and lots of other things also match, like both of us have the same sexy girlfriend "Bad luck", and tonnes of other things and generally we are good at interpreting each other without any efforts at all, so things were kewl, in the midst of all dada also found about my screwed relation with the lady and did more than whatever he could to fix the same, however results.......
Anyways in all this also found out the reason as to why dada was so crazily interested in fixing my relation, because he had lived the nightmare, the guy who we felt was sharing the spillover of his happiness was indeed actually empty, he was alone, his wife had left him after one and a half decade of togetherness, shitt man, that was damn crazy, this man so full of life, vigour, energy, spreading cheer, was alone, lone....hey what the hell, thats not right how could this be, but again a lesson its called "life", anyways, dada and I kept rolling thorugh bad times and we both had the same girlfriend so it was never anything monetary between us, not than I didnt use his money but rather never in an accountable manner, but his knowledge his wisdom, his thought process, simply stunning or rather amazing, a great mentor and thats what he was exactly making out of me,
As they say time never waits and things kept moving, bullshit stories around, even shit like dada has a son who is an engineer and what not, like his affair with someone, i know the affair, we both have with the hotties, sexy Ms. Badluck, but she aint a feline female or a chick, she is wat she is, hope u understand, but these things were crazy, disturbing and annoying and when they came from near and dear one, even more annoying, but they were untrue, and since I and dada had become very close, there had to be fingers objecting every damn thing, but what the hell, all efforts put to make sour in our relation, rather hamaari dosti mein "khataas" jo aayi use hum neembu paani samajh ke pee gaye, ant we rocked, in the infinite list of amazing things between us, if he doesnt like something about me, he will straightway tell me on my face and vice versa, so thats an excellent thing we feel, thats clears any shit confusion that may come, be that any shit and anyways the biggest shit that ruins relations is money and that never can hopefully come between us.
In the meanwhile all efforts were being put to make dada a family, a minor from my side mostly from his great mumma, and when the efforts are so many, they say try try till you succeed and with the blessings of mumma, viola, oh yeah, dada's father passed away when he joined this company and that was yet another reason for the big turmoil in his life as if he didnt have many already.
Now that ammi's i.e. dada's mumma's efforts were materializing for the first tym i gotta see anny, his wife to be and immediately called her bhabhi, and took her number and photograph as well in my phone, things progressed and eventually came the day of his wedding, it was supposed to be simple, dada didnt really want all hush hush and decorated car and blah blah, but then i wont let that happen, borrows a friends tata safari got it decorated and bingo dulhe bhai ki gaadi taiyyar!!! everybody in the family appreciated the same and even dada got a smile on his face, a smile that meant a zillion to me, then off for the marriage rather the wedding at the temple, obviously I am happy like crazy for aaj mere yaar ki shaadi hai, my big bro's marriage, and even in this the lady was throwing shitty attitude which we were ignoring, then to the temple and blast, I lost my big bro, the fucker made me do "Kanyadaan" of anny!!!! I mean what the fuck, not that I didnt want to or I wasnt glad to or anything like that but I wasnt prepared to, anyways big bro's order, so good bye big bro and hello JIJU from now on, still regardless of all no matter what the relation may have been changed to dada's still dada for me and my big bro always and an excellent mentor hamesha,
I love my big bro and regardless of all now when my life is going through a living hell and every-time he ensures that i see a heaven in hell!! everyday morning we make it a point to enjoy our coffe and lunch together with smokes, thats some time we cherish and pray that we always do, everytime I get to be with him ranging from a look to a night I learn a lot and always look forward to it,
I love you big bro.......
Approximately the time rolls back to half a decade when I and dada met, neither remembering how, but yes we did, probably over a smoke, and the very first interaction with him and make anyone feel that he is a highly intellectual person who is too freakingly busy spreading cheer everywhere around, almost like he has so much cheer in his life that the pot is spilling and the spills is what he is spreading to all around bringing cheer to everyone, man the dude is so full of life and I was damn impressed wit the guy for he was just bringing happiness, soon interactions increased, time spent together increased and then in the midst of all realized that he is a bong, no offenses, but a bong who hates bongs!!!! for he has no traits of a bong except the extra large sweet tooth like me, people do at times say that even I have the looks of a bong!!!! i dont feel that but again people ... u cant stop them.....
So back to the point, relations started growing stronger with dada, started realizing that ideologies match and lots of other things also match, like both of us have the same sexy girlfriend "Bad luck", and tonnes of other things and generally we are good at interpreting each other without any efforts at all, so things were kewl, in the midst of all dada also found about my screwed relation with the lady and did more than whatever he could to fix the same, however results.......
Anyways in all this also found out the reason as to why dada was so crazily interested in fixing my relation, because he had lived the nightmare, the guy who we felt was sharing the spillover of his happiness was indeed actually empty, he was alone, his wife had left him after one and a half decade of togetherness, shitt man, that was damn crazy, this man so full of life, vigour, energy, spreading cheer, was alone, lone....hey what the hell, thats not right how could this be, but again a lesson its called "life", anyways, dada and I kept rolling thorugh bad times and we both had the same girlfriend so it was never anything monetary between us, not than I didnt use his money but rather never in an accountable manner, but his knowledge his wisdom, his thought process, simply stunning or rather amazing, a great mentor and thats what he was exactly making out of me,
As they say time never waits and things kept moving, bullshit stories around, even shit like dada has a son who is an engineer and what not, like his affair with someone, i know the affair, we both have with the hotties, sexy Ms. Badluck, but she aint a feline female or a chick, she is wat she is, hope u understand, but these things were crazy, disturbing and annoying and when they came from near and dear one, even more annoying, but they were untrue, and since I and dada had become very close, there had to be fingers objecting every damn thing, but what the hell, all efforts put to make sour in our relation, rather hamaari dosti mein "khataas" jo aayi use hum neembu paani samajh ke pee gaye, ant we rocked, in the infinite list of amazing things between us, if he doesnt like something about me, he will straightway tell me on my face and vice versa, so thats an excellent thing we feel, thats clears any shit confusion that may come, be that any shit and anyways the biggest shit that ruins relations is money and that never can hopefully come between us.
In the meanwhile all efforts were being put to make dada a family, a minor from my side mostly from his great mumma, and when the efforts are so many, they say try try till you succeed and with the blessings of mumma, viola, oh yeah, dada's father passed away when he joined this company and that was yet another reason for the big turmoil in his life as if he didnt have many already.
Now that ammi's i.e. dada's mumma's efforts were materializing for the first tym i gotta see anny, his wife to be and immediately called her bhabhi, and took her number and photograph as well in my phone, things progressed and eventually came the day of his wedding, it was supposed to be simple, dada didnt really want all hush hush and decorated car and blah blah, but then i wont let that happen, borrows a friends tata safari got it decorated and bingo dulhe bhai ki gaadi taiyyar!!! everybody in the family appreciated the same and even dada got a smile on his face, a smile that meant a zillion to me, then off for the marriage rather the wedding at the temple, obviously I am happy like crazy for aaj mere yaar ki shaadi hai, my big bro's marriage, and even in this the lady was throwing shitty attitude which we were ignoring, then to the temple and blast, I lost my big bro, the fucker made me do "Kanyadaan" of anny!!!! I mean what the fuck, not that I didnt want to or I wasnt glad to or anything like that but I wasnt prepared to, anyways big bro's order, so good bye big bro and hello JIJU from now on, still regardless of all no matter what the relation may have been changed to dada's still dada for me and my big bro always and an excellent mentor hamesha,
I love my big bro and regardless of all now when my life is going through a living hell and every-time he ensures that i see a heaven in hell!! everyday morning we make it a point to enjoy our coffe and lunch together with smokes, thats some time we cherish and pray that we always do, everytime I get to be with him ranging from a look to a night I learn a lot and always look forward to it,
I love you big bro.......
CTRL+ALT+DEL
Just 3 keys to Enjoy Life : CTRL+ALT+DEL
1. Control yourself
2. Look for Alternative solutions
3. Delete the situation which gives you tension...!!
Easily said but barely applied but many and that includes me as well, although am mentored nicely to do it but many a times faulter, but still have changed a lot probably in tonnes from what was to what am, but again these blogs are mine and direct dil se and I say if I change and able to impress or change or make a single person learn with these I'll be a happier person,
The measures above and many others in the blog are simply true and facts that we are well aware of but barely do apply to personal life and henceforth read and forget, so now I have started applying all of these things and am hoping more positive changes to come into picture but again lets see what time has in stock for me.....
Good day ahead
The Maula Song from the movie Jism 2
A personal Like, simply touched my heart
Making it available for myself and everyone else
Download It
Every Problem In Life
Every Problem In Life Carries A Gift Inside it,
So Whenever You Loose Something,
Don't Get Upset.. Because
Something May Wait For You,
More Than You Lost...!
So Whenever You Loose Something,
Don't Get Upset.. Because
Something May Wait For You,
More Than You Lost...!
Alphabet "O"
Alphabet "O" stands for opportunity,
which is absent in 'yesterday',
Available once in 'Today'
And Thrice in 'Tomorrow'.
So Stay Positive Always !!
Anyone can sympathize - Dada's Mentorings
Anyone can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend,
but it requires a very fine nature to
sympathize with a friend's success.
A great mentor taught this to me, hats off to you big bro dada, then I saw the same dialogue in 3 idiots, dost fail ho jaaaye to duk hota hai lekin,
But the amazing dada, simply amazing big bro, you are, whoops end of dictionary... EOF
Dada please stop touching old strings of your blog, they are too freakingly touchy and bring tears, especially when ..... Old Strings
Strong feelings
Strong feelings do not necessarily make a strong character.
The strength of a man is to be measured by the
power of the feelings he subdues
not by the power of those which subdue him
You have to make mistakes
You have to make mistakes to find out who you aren't.
You take the action, and the insight follows :
You don't think your way into becoming yourself
Monday, 9 July 2012
Learn From the past
Learn from the past,
set vivid, detailed goals for the future,
and live in the only moment of time
over which you have any control: now
Sunday, 8 July 2012
A Request - Not to Offend - Sexy MF!!!
A Request from heart
Not to offend, a song long lost in time,
Beautiful lyrics
Must Have Been Love But Its Over Now
A True dedication
Must Have been love but its over now.... from me to the lady
Davidoff One
Davidoff One
Yeah right thats not a deodrant but a cigarette which has Tar 1mg, Nicotine 0.1 Mg, Carbon Monoxide 1 Mg, and this is damn low compared to any damn indian cig that we have available part, but again the flip side when I smoke one of these I dont even derstand what exactly am I doing, so my number of smokes ina day have drastically falled, even dada tried this smoke and it was hard to understand if its lit or not, because its so freakingly light and the smoke it releases is barely fely, funny but true the smoke is odourless and atall we dont feel like we are smoking and yet it kills the desire for smoke,
So with the number of smokes gone down, I like it and I am experiencing changes in myself, shooting stamina and vigour, good hai jee, and I dont even feel like smokin.....
If some of my ol' buddies would remeber the song ma'ch beh'cho sutta na mila, then I am pretty sue they were not talking about Davidoff...............
Yeah right thats not a deodrant but a cigarette which has Tar 1mg, Nicotine 0.1 Mg, Carbon Monoxide 1 Mg, and this is damn low compared to any damn indian cig that we have available part, but again the flip side when I smoke one of these I dont even derstand what exactly am I doing, so my number of smokes ina day have drastically falled, even dada tried this smoke and it was hard to understand if its lit or not, because its so freakingly light and the smoke it releases is barely fely, funny but true the smoke is odourless and atall we dont feel like we are smoking and yet it kills the desire for smoke,
So with the number of smokes gone down, I like it and I am experiencing changes in myself, shooting stamina and vigour, good hai jee, and I dont even feel like smokin.....
If some of my ol' buddies would remeber the song ma'ch beh'cho sutta na mila, then I am pretty sue they were not talking about Davidoff...............
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